Stubborn and strong-willed. Once her mind is made up, it is impossible to change. Does not ask for much, so she feels when she does ask her needs should be met.
Your Stress Sources
Needs to meet people who have the same high principals and values, but finds the need unfulfilled.
Her need to feel dominating and superior leaves her feeling isolated and does not allow her to give freely of herself. She would like to surrender and let go, but sees that as a weakness she must not give in to. Holding back will allow her to stand out for the crowd and earn a higher status, recognized by others as unique and important.”
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current situations force her into compromise and placing her own hopes and desires on hold for the time being.
"Believes her hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others. Has strict standards when looking for a partner and wants guarantees that she will not be disappointed or lose."
Is bothered when her needs and desires are misunderstood and she feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. Her self-centered attitude can cause her to be easily offended.
Your Desired Objective
Avoids conflict and disagreements. Prefers a peaceful, calm, and relaxing environment.
Your Actual Problem
Her desire to be respected and to stand out from the crowd is not being satisfied and therefore she is feeling anxious.
Her normal friendly self is being held back and she refuses to become involved or participate with others in normal day to day activities.
saya: ah, ini dia ternyata yang namanya nama2 nabi! pa yanto: hah? mana? siapa nama dia emangnya? saya: ibrahim musa assidiq pa yanto: hooo iyah iyah hahaha pa yanto: untung namanya ga … pa yanto: siapa sih? saya: muhamad yesus? pa yanto: ah iyah! MUHAMAD YESUS!
Hahaha Muhammad Yesus yang terkenal itu, alumni SR (taun 98 kalo ga salah) guru gambar gue di Bintang Merah dulu. Panggilannya… Iyus, antiklimaks banget haha…
“It’s the oldest story in the world. One day you’re seventeen and planning for someday. And then quietly and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And that someday is yesterday. And this is your life. We spend so much time wanting, pursuing, wishing - but ambition is good, chasing things with integrity is good, dreaming. If you had a friend you knew you’d never see again, what would you say? If you could do one last thing for someone you love, what would it be? Say it, do it. Don’t wait. Nothing lasts forever. Make a wish, place it in your heart. Anything you want, everything you want. Do you have it? Good, now believe it can come true. You never know where the next miracle is going to come from, the next memory, the next smile, the next wish come true. But, if you believe that it’s right around the corner, and you open your heart and mind to the possiblity of it, to the certainty of it, you just might get the thing you wished for. The world is full of magic, you just have to believe in it. So make your wish, do you have it? Good. Now believe in it with all your heart.”—
“I was beginning to see, though, that the unknown wasn’t always the greatest thing to fear. The people who know you best can be risker, because the words they say and things they think have the potential to be not only scary but true, as well.”—Sarah Dessen (Just Listen)
Gue punya dosen, namanya Pak Yustiono. Beliau orangnya ‘antik’ tapi super pinter deh, soal sejarah dan perkembangan seni. Kabarnya beliau nggak punya TV ataupun handphone.
Sebagaimana dikisahkan oleh Awan, ada dua dosen yang sedang membahas pertandingan sepakbola yang seru. Tiba-tiba Pak Yustiono menimpali dengan semangat. Dosen gue heran. “Lho kok Bapak tau? Bapak udah punya TV?”
"Enggak, saya denger dari radio."
Salut banget gue.
Kuliahnya membosankan harus gue akui. Entahlah mungkin karena gue susah fokus jadi sepanjang kelas dia gue blank ngapain aja. Gatau gimana gue bisa lulus terus kelas-kelas dia. Waktu itu dia menyebutkan hewan-hewan fantastis dari Harry Potter. Respek gue langsung +100.
Waktu itu dia juga menyebut di kelasnya, “…..seperti Britney Spears yang udelnya kelihatan…” dan gue langsung ngangkat kepala kaget.
Itulah dosen gue Pak Yustiono. Random amat sih tiba-tiba gue nulis ini =_=